What do you do when you think the person you love isn't sexually attracted to you, that there is no urge to want to kiss you all the time.
Maybe it's just me and I'm over thinking things, but how do you tell your girlfriend whom you adore that you don't think that they find you hot cute attractive anything. Am I just an average joe that wouldn't matter.
What girl doesn't like a compliment from time to time or something nice to be said, I do believe in being honest, for example I won't tell someone they look nice or pretty or whatever if I didn't think it. So maybe that's how she feels, like it doesn't take a genius to figure out I'm not the good looking one in the realtionship or even the funny one. I've shot way out of my league.. Maybe that's my fault
I like her. All I can think whenever I'm with her is, is she jut comfortable now, not in the sense of wearing whatever and talking about whatever I like that comfortable kind of thing, but I mean.. Has she settled for me. Like does she want to have sex with me.
She was intrigued by me because she thought I was cool and funny. To then later realise I'm a boring stress head!! Who gets nervous even now when she's around. I don't wanna fuck up, and it feels like I am.. I can feel myself pushing away even though I wanna pull her closer.
I like attention who doesn't, someone to tell me I look nice or I smell nice, something to remind me that I am worth spending time with.
Sometimes my insecruties override all my other feelings and it just makes me feel down.
I don't feel attractive, it's not my girlfriends fault, so I shouldn't write things where it sounds like I'm blaming her. I need to overcome them soon or I'll just pity myself.
All in all, my girlfriend is amazing and I do really love her to bits!!
Maybe it's just me and I'm over thinking things, but how do you tell your girlfriend whom you adore that you don't think that they find you hot cute attractive anything. Am I just an average joe that wouldn't matter.
What girl doesn't like a compliment from time to time or something nice to be said, I do believe in being honest, for example I won't tell someone they look nice or pretty or whatever if I didn't think it. So maybe that's how she feels, like it doesn't take a genius to figure out I'm not the good looking one in the realtionship or even the funny one. I've shot way out of my league.. Maybe that's my fault
I like her. All I can think whenever I'm with her is, is she jut comfortable now, not in the sense of wearing whatever and talking about whatever I like that comfortable kind of thing, but I mean.. Has she settled for me. Like does she want to have sex with me.
She was intrigued by me because she thought I was cool and funny. To then later realise I'm a boring stress head!! Who gets nervous even now when she's around. I don't wanna fuck up, and it feels like I am.. I can feel myself pushing away even though I wanna pull her closer.
I like attention who doesn't, someone to tell me I look nice or I smell nice, something to remind me that I am worth spending time with.
Sometimes my insecruties override all my other feelings and it just makes me feel down.
I don't feel attractive, it's not my girlfriends fault, so I shouldn't write things where it sounds like I'm blaming her. I need to overcome them soon or I'll just pity myself.
All in all, my girlfriend is amazing and I do really love her to bits!!
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